From your note above, it still seems to me as if you're somehow waiting for a magical moment. There is no magical moment. There is just recognizing that where there was thought to be a self, there is in fact NOTHING. Nothing as in NOTHING. There is not a no-self that needs to be seen. There is no self. Nothing.
If you could relax the tendency and desire for something special to occur, like the sudden revelation of No-Self, or the dramatic disappearance of self, you might even see that you're already seeing it, no self.